90-Year-Old Refuses Cancer Treatment, Travels The World Instead

At 90-years-old, Norma isn’t letting a recent cancer diagnosis slow her down. In fact, she’s chosen to forgo treatment in favour of a life of adventure and travel.

Recognizing that cancer treatment would involve a risky surgery, and rounds of radiation and chemotherapy, Norma decided to bid farewell to the nursing home and hit the road with her family in an RV camper.

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Good morning, Miss Norma!

Posted by Driving Miss Norma on Wednesday, January 20, 2016

Norma’s family shared her inspirational story on her Facebook page:

“For many years Norma and Leo would listen to Paul Harvey’s ‘The Rest of the Story’ at lunch time in their humble home in northern Michigan. Now, this is the rest of her story…

“During the same two-week period, her husband, Leo, was dying, Norma, was traveling through her own medical maze.”

This guy tried to get Miss Norma to go to Mars with him!

Posted by Driving Miss Norma on Friday, February 12, 2016

“Having some blood detected in her urine during a routine exam, she was sent for an ultrasound, then another. The day after Leo was admitted to Hospice we learned that she had a large, likely cancerous mass on her uterus. Two days after Leo died we found ourselves sitting in an OB/GYN office talking about treatment options.

“You know the drill: surgery, then radiation and chemo in some order. When the doctor was finished he asked her how she would like to proceed.”

This attracted a little attention!

Posted by Driving Miss Norma on Tuesday, February 23, 2016

“A tiny woman at 101 pounds and under five-feet tall, an exhausted Norma looked the young doctor dead in the eye and with the strongest voice she could muster, said, ‘I’m 90-years-old, I’m hitting the road.’ The doc and the confused first-day medical student who was shadowing him looked at Tim (her son) and me (her daughter-in-law, Ramie) for some clarification.”

We have now officially created a monster! Strike a pose!!!

Posted by Driving Miss Norma on Thursday, February 11, 2016

“We had had time to talk to Norma beforehand about the likelihood that there would be some bad news coming from the doctor. She made it VERY clear to us that she had no interest in any treatment. We ‘got it’ and were in complete support of her decision.

“But what next? We couldn’t imagine leaving her in a nursing home, especially after walking down the long halls of the local Tender Care to visit Leo in the last room on the right, reserved by Hospice, for the dying. No way. There is also no way she could live at home alone without Leo. They were truly a well-oiled team of 67 years.”

She just couldn’t decide and when you are old you LOVE cake!

Posted by Driving Miss Norma on Monday, February 22, 2016

“Having recently read Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End by Atul Gawande (please put this on your reading list) our best idea was to take her on the road with us. Norma currently is not in pain, her mind is sharp, she loves to travel, and she is remarkably easy to be around.

“We explained to the well-meaning doctor and his student that we live in an RV and that we will be taking her wherever she wants to go. He didn’t hesitate to say, “RIGHT ON!” We asked if he thought us irresponsible for this approach. His reply was telling.”

“‘As doctors,’ he said, ‘we see what cancer treatment looks like every day. ICU, nursing homes, awful side effects and honestly, there is no guarantee she will survive the initial surgery to remove the mass. You are doing exactly what I would want to do in this situation. Have a fantastic trip!’”

What trip to Norway is complete without a couple cute vikings?

Shawn Walker Graham, we couldn’t help but think of you!!! Remember?

Posted by Driving Miss Norma on Wednesday, January 27, 2016

“Meanwhile, the medical student stood discreetly next to the exam room door taking it all in. Until that point she had spent her first day working with pregnant women – the waiting room was filled with them – all thinking about the beginning of life, not the end. The look on her face during our conversation indicated she had just received the education of a lifetime.”

For many years Norma and Leo would listen to Paul Harvey’s “The Rest of the Story” at lunch time in their humble home in…

Posted by Driving Miss Norma on Monday, September 21, 2015

For the past 6 months, Norma and her family have visited several stunning national parks and even gone on a hot air balloon ride over Florida and is loving life. They have also traveled outside of the U.S., to faraway destinations like Norway and China. Fortunately, Norma’s signs of cancer have reduced and she is in no pain.

Norma continues to have a positive outlook no matter where she is.

Okay, we owe this to the crazy fans!!!! These two both got their hair done this week. One was happy with the stylist and the other one was… well, you decide.

Thank you, Darlene!!!!!

Posted by Driving Miss Norma on Tuesday, December 22, 2015

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